Monday, 29 October 2012

Life with Kids

Screenplay for a day in the life of a TV mother

Enter right hand stage a perfectly kempt woman in her mid-30s, with twins upon her size 10 hips, unchanged since her sickness free 40week pregnancy and 4hr caesarean birth.
She sweeps across the room approaching her handsome shaven and suited husband who has laid the table with toast and tea and is reading the morning paper, she kisses him on the cheek and puts both of the golden haired, smiling children in their pristine highchairs.
As they all quietly tuck into their breakfast of scrambled eggs, croissants and freshly squeezed orange juice the babies coo and giggle as their Father plays peek-a-boo around the broadsheet.

Lights dim.
Switch to stage two

Screenplay for a day in the life of a real mother

Enter from right hand stage a 20-something mother of two, wrestling a 6 month old who is gnawing at the oversized polyester maternity jumper that is still the only thing that fits after having spent the past three years pregnant or in labour, a toddler with a nose crust resembling a map of Italy follows along behind clutching a Winnie the Poo toy which appears to have survived an apocalypse.
As she trudges across the kitchen, kicking a washing basket full of lasts nights laundry, her husband dressed in clothes that a tramp appeared to have thrown away last decade, lounges against the kitchen counter drinking coffee and eating the crust from a four day old loaf of bread. Their eyes lock for one moment, he nods and the toddler head butts him in the groin and runs away gleefully shouting, ‘catch me daddy’.  The wife asks him to take the dustbins out and they stop for a split second to look at each other, leaning closer as if to kiss, however with a brief peck on the ear from her husband, the mother lunges to retrieve a dog chew toy from the baby whilst he wriggles around on the kitchen floor and the husband dashes out the back door.

Fin

As a teen I had never intended to have children, they appeared to me, to make women look older than their years and caused them to speak in shrill, panicky voices. Their husbands looked lost and on occasion desperate in the same way my dog looks when we come downstairs to let him out in the morning after 8 hours of not having a wee to find a large puddle and a shredded basket. I realise now that I was very perceptive, children could be used to herd cattle or to rehabilitate petty criminals, four nights with a teething baby would be enough to rival a weekend at a high security prison. However something changes you when you have children, grown men join in the excitement of ‘The wee-wee dance’ after a two year old finally learns to use the potty in place of the living room carpet to do their business. Women find themselves discussing cut teeth and first words over coffee, wearing last year’s fashion, accessorised in baby sick and felt tip pen in place of the new SATC movie, and Grandparents can now find a new way to tell you how you should be living your life as a responsible parent/adult… 

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